and respect he that be only real have needs have exceed great part of virtue  as the stone have needs to be rich that be set without foil but if a man mark  it well it be in praise and commendation of man as it be in get and gain for  the proverb be true that light gain make heavy purse for light gain come thick  whereas great come but now and then so it be true that small matter win great  commendation because they be continual in use and in note whereas the occasion  of any great virtue come but on festival therefore it do much add to a man  reputation and be as queen Isabel say like perpetual letter commendatory to  have good from to attain they it almost suffice not to despise they for so  shall a man observe they in other and let he trust himself with the rest for  if he labour too much to express they he shall lose their grace which be to be  natural and unaffected some man behaviour be like a verse wherein every  syllable be measure how can a man comprehend great matter that break his mind  too much to small observation not to use ceremony at all be to teach other not  to use they again and so diminish respect to himself especial they be not to  be omit to stranger and formal nature but the dwell upon they and exalt they  above the moon be not only tedious but do diminish the faith and credit of he  that speak and certain there be a kind of convey of effectual and imprint  passage among compliment which be of singular use if a man can hit upon it  among a man peer a man shall be sure of familiarity and therefore it be good a  little to keep state among a man inferior one shall be sure of reverence and  therefore it be good a little to be familiar he that be too much in anything  so that he give another occasion of satiety make himself cheap to apply one  self to other be good so it be with demonstration that a man do it upon regard  and not upon facility it be a good precept general in second another yet to  add somewhat of one own as if you will grant his opinion let it be with some  distinction if you will follow his motion let it be with condition if you  allow his counsel let it be with allege further reason man have needs beware  how they be too perfect in compliment for be they never so sufficient  otherwise their envier will be sure to give they that attribute to the  disadvantage of their great virtue it be loss also in business to be too full  of respect or to be curious in observe time and opportunity Solomon say he  that consider the wind shall not sow and he that look to the cloud shall not  reap a wise man will make more opportunity than he find man behaviour shall be  like their apparel not too strait or point device but free for exercise or  motion